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Letting Go to Move Forward: A Reflection on My Journey to France

  • Writer: Lois Mills
    Lois Mills
  • Jan 12
  • 2 min read

Hello, my Sensational readers,


As I prepare for my move to France in just over a month, I find myself reflecting on something much bigger than packing and planning. This isn’t just about downsizing or fitting my life into a smaller apartment. It’s about letting go—of over 40 years of acquisitions, of parts of my life that are no longer present, and of the idea that I need to hold on to everything to preserve its value.


Lois gracefully packing cherished items into a sleek box, her long silver hair flowing over a chic cream blouse. A vase of fresh flowers sits nearby, adding warmth to the serene, minimalist setting, symbolizing her journey of letting go and embracing new beginnings.


The Freedom of Letting Go


When I began this process, I leaned on the principles of Swedish Death Cleaning to categorize and evaluate what truly mattered. It gave me a practical way to start, but what I didn’t expect was how emotional and freeing this journey would be.

Letting go of the things I’ve accumulated over decades—the clothes, the furniture, the collections that once brought me so much joy—has allowed me to fully accept that some chapters of my life are over. And you know what? That’s okay.


I’ve lived a rich and wonderful life filled with beautiful things, incredible experiences, and cherished memories. But it’s time to embrace what’s next without dragging the weight of the past with me.



Book cover: "The Gentle Art of Swedish Death Cleaning" by Margareta Magnusson. Blue and yellow illustrations with text about clutter.
I recommend this book to EVERYONE!

Acknowledging What’s Done


There’s a bittersweet clarity in realizing that parts of my life—my career, my marriage, the homes I’ve built—are behind me. But that doesn’t make what lies ahead any less exciting. In fact, it’s liberating to acknowledge that while those chapters shaped who I am, they no longer define me.

By letting go of what no longer serves me, I’m making space for the life I want to build in France. I’m keeping what’s truly meaningful—treasured gifts from loved ones, sentimental keepsakes—and releasing the rest with gratitude for the role it played in my life.


Moving Toward What’s Next


This process has shown me that letting go isn’t about loss—it’s about making room. Room for growth, for change, and for new beginnings.

If you’ve ever felt stuck holding on to something because you were afraid to let it go, I encourage you to ask yourself: Is this serving me now? Letting go isn’t just about things; it’s about the stories we tell ourselves and the attachments we carry.


Join Me on This Journey


As I continue this transition, I’ll be sharing more about my move, my reflections, and the lessons I’m learning along the way. If you’d like to hear more about my process and my thoughts on embracing the next part of life, I invite you to watch my latest video.


Lois Mills, wearing a black sweater with gold button accents, sits thoughtfully against a serene gradient background of pink and purple hues. The words 'let it go' are prominently displayed in bold white text on the left side of the image. This thumbnail is part of her Silver and Sensational series, reflecting her journey and insights into simplifying life and embracing new beginnings.Lois Mills, wearing a black sweater with gold button accents, sits thoughtfully against a serene gradient background of pink and purple hues. The words 'let it go' are prominently displayed in bold white text on the left side of the image. This thumbnail is part of her Silver and Sensational series, reflecting her journey and insights into simplifying life and embracing new beginnings.


Here’s to embracing change and finding freedom in the next chapter.


🤍, Lois

2 Comments


Dana Beatty
Dana Beatty
Feb 20

There was a show (Hulu perhaps) based on Sweedish Death Cleaning - if only I could light a fire under my behind to do more culling.

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sandcoleman
Feb 13

Making room for growth, change and new beginnings. Love it!

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