Navigating the Complexities of Finding a Home in Paris

Finding an apartment is never easy, but searching for one halfway across the world? That’s a whole new level of challenging! As I prepare for my big move to Paris, I’ve encountered a fair share of ups and downs in the apartment hunting process—and it’s been nothing short of an adventure.

The Struggles of Apartment Hunting in Paris

Parisian apartments have their quirks, many of which feel foreign to us Americans. For example, elevators are a luxury in older buildings, and unconventional bathroom arrangements can leave you scratching your head. Add to that the unique French rental system, where landlords choose you based on a dossier you prepare to prove your worth as a tenant. Yes, you read that right—finding an apartment in Paris is as much about selling yourself as it is about liking the property.

I’ve also learned that the lack of a centralized MLS system, which we take for granted in the U.S., means relying heavily on brokers and their relationships. It’s been a maze of listings, Google Maps searches, and leaps of faith to even see the apartments virtually.

The Emotional Toll and Lessons Learned

One thing this process has taught me is the importance of flexibility—and knowing when to walk away. I’ve faced instances of landlords rejecting tenants without French income and even encountered hidden fees that make already pricey rentals even less appealing. While it’s frustrating, it’s also freeing to realize that if something doesn’t work out, it’s likely because something better is on the horizon.

A Dream District

I’m drawn to a specific arrondissement in Paris, a place that stole my heart during a six-week stay for my 75th birthday. The neighborhood, while not the most glamorous, felt like home—with its lively markets, charming boutiques, and vibrant, diverse community. It’s a dream to live there again, and I’m holding out for the right fit, even if it means more time and effort.

Advice for Future Expats

For anyone considering a move to Paris, my advice is to:

• Hire a local broker—they know the system better than anyone.

• Stay in a short-term rental while you search.

• Brace yourself for cultural differences, like slower timelines and unique rental rules.

  
  

The journey isn’t over, but I’m taking it one step at a time and embracing the lessons along the way.

If you want to hear more about my experiences, including some of the surprises I’ve faced and tips for navigating the French rental market, be sure to watch my latest video:

🤍, Lois